Are You With The Right One?

No one wants to be alone, and it’s because of this that we find ourselves in relationships that don’t challenge us and make us grow.  Life is about growing from lessons learned, as well as evolving both mentally and spiritually.  So in order to have a successful relationship, you have to be with someone who stimulates your mind.  Someone that forces you to think totally outside the box of your normal train of thought.  You have to be willing to push the boundaries of everything you’ve ever known to be true.  In doing this, you expand your universal knowledge while also forming a more close and intimate bond with your partner.  If you’re not in a relationship that challenges you to do and become better, you will find yourself feeling stagnant, frustrated and restless.  This is not the goal of anyone who chooses to be in a relationship.  Therefore I encourage you to spark up a conversation that will set off all the electrical circuits in your brain and causes your partner to have the very same stimulation in theirs.  You owe it to yourself to grow, and if growth isn’t possible, you owe it to yourself to let go.